
About The Song
“Once More with Feeling” is a song written and recorded by Kris Kristofferson, appearing on his third studio album, Border Lord, released in October 1972. The album marked a transitional period in Kristofferson’s career, both musically and personally, as he was balancing growing recognition as a songwriter with increasing demands as a performer and actor. “Once More with Feeling” is one of several introspective tracks on the album that reflect a more subdued and reflective approach compared to some of his earlier work.
By the early 1970s, Kris Kristofferson had established himself as a respected songwriter in Nashville, with many of his compositions becoming hits for other artists. However, his own albums often focused less on commercial singles and more on cohesive storytelling and personal expression. Border Lord continued this pattern, presenting songs that explored relationships, responsibility, and emotional uncertainty. “Once More with Feeling” fits within this broader thematic framework.
The song’s title is derived from a phrase commonly used in film and theater, signaling a repeated attempt to capture genuine emotion. Lyrically, “Once More with Feeling” addresses the tension between emotional detachment and the desire for authenticity in a romantic relationship. The narrator acknowledges emotional distance while simultaneously expressing a wish to reconnect, suggesting a cycle of repetition rather than resolution. This sense of emotional ambiguity is a recurring element in Kristofferson’s songwriting.
Rather than presenting a dramatic narrative arc, the song unfolds as a quiet reflection. The lyrics avoid overt declarations or dramatic conflict, focusing instead on subtle emotional shifts. Kristofferson’s writing emphasizes honesty and restraint, allowing listeners to interpret the emotional state of the narrator without explicit explanation. This understated approach distinguishes the song from more conventional love songs of the era.
Musically, “Once More with Feeling” is built on a simple arrangement that prioritizes vocal delivery and lyrical clarity. The instrumentation is minimal, consistent with Kristofferson’s preference for straightforward production during this period. His vocal performance is calm and unembellished, reinforcing the song’s reflective tone. The lack of dramatic instrumentation supports the lyrical theme of emotional distance and repetition.
“Once More with Feeling” was not released as a single and did not appear on Billboard singles charts. Like many tracks on Border Lord, its importance lies less in commercial performance and more in its contribution to the album’s overall mood and narrative continuity. The album itself did not produce major chart-topping singles, but it has been regarded as an important document of Kristofferson’s artistic development.
Over time, “Once More with Feeling” has remained a lesser-known but representative example of Kris Kristofferson’s early 1970s songwriting. The song reflects his ongoing interest in portraying imperfect relationships and emotionally conflicted characters without offering clear solutions. Within the context of his broader catalog, it stands as a quiet, introspective piece that illustrates his commitment to lyrical honesty and narrative realism during a pivotal stage of his career.
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We’re just goin’ through the motions
Of the parts we’ve learned to play
Never quite together like before
But somehow, darlin’, something good
Got lost along the way
And our song ain’t nothing special anymore
Let’s try it one more time with feeling, darlin’
Take it from the top
Let me feel those tears a fallin’, girl
I don’t want to miss a single drop
Darlin’, make believe your makin’ me
Believe each word you say
Try it once more with feeling
And we’ll call it a day
Well, you’re reachin’ out to touch me, darlin’
Just the way you used to do
And you’re lookin’ everywhere but in my eyes
Well, that’s an oldy and it’s a goody, baby
But them words ain’t ringin’ true
And you don’t seem very sure of your lie
So try it one more time with feeling, daelin’
Take it from the top
This one is gonna be the big one, baby
so give it everything you got
Darlin’, make ‘er believe your makin’ me
Believe each word you say
Try it once more with feeling
And we’ll call it a day
Let’s try it once more with feeling
And we’ll call it a day
Think about it, killer