About The Song

“Real Love” is a duet recorded by Dolly Parton and Kenny Rogers that served as the title track and one of the lead singles from Parton’s 1985 album Real Love. The single was released in April 1985 and appears on the album issued earlier that year. The recording reunited Parton and Rogers following their earlier high-profile duet work and was positioned as a major single from Parton’s then-current studio project. The song was presented as a contemporary country-pop offering aimed at both country radio and broader adult-contemporary audiences.

The song was written by David Malloy, Richard “Spady” Brannon and Randy McCormick and was produced by David Malloy. The session brought together material crafted for duet performance, with melodic and lyrical choices tailored to alternating lines and shared choruses. The Parton–Rogers reunion around this release also included a brief concert tour and a televised concert special connected to the album’s promotion, which amplified the single’s visibility in the spring and summer of 1985.

Lyrically, “Real Love” emphasizes straightforward expressions of trust and practical commitment. The text avoids elaborate metaphor and instead sets out direct declarations about reliability and mutual support in a relationship. Verses supply concrete, conversational lines while the chorus consolidates the theme into a repeated affirmation; the result is a lyric designed for clear vocal interplay between two singers and immediate audience recognition of the song’s emotional proposition.

Musically, the recording follows the polished country-pop template common to mid-1980s mainstream country production. The arrangement is radio-oriented and relatively restrained, employing layered instrumentation that supports rather than competes with the voices. Parton and Rogers trade lead lines and converge on harmonized choruses, with production choices that highlight vocal clarity and the conversational rapport between the two performers. The overall sound places the duet squarely in the era’s crossover-friendly country style.

On the charts, “Real Love” was a notable country hit. The single reached number one on the Billboard Hot Country Singles chart in August 1985 and spent multiple weeks on the country listings. Its crossover impact on the pop chart was limited compared with the duo’s earlier megahit “Islands in the Stream”: “Real Love” reached the lower region of the Billboard Hot 100 while performing more strongly on adult contemporary playlists. The song also registered on Canadian country listings and contributed to the commercial performance of the Real Love album.

Industry recognition followed the single’s release: Parton and Rogers’s performance of “Real Love” earned a Grammy nomination in the country duo/group performance category, and the song was considered an important late-career collaboration for both artists. Contemporary commentary tended to treat the track as a carefully produced reunion rather than the kind of wide pop crossover the pair achieved earlier, but it nonetheless reinforced the commercial chemistry between two of country music’s most bankable vocal partners.

In retrospective terms, “Real Love” occupies a clear place in the catalogs of both Dolly Parton and Kenny Rogers. It stands as a representative example of mid-1980s country-pop duetcraft—direct in lyric, polished in production, and built around the contrasting yet complementary vocal styles of the two singers. The recording has appeared on compilations and remains a frequently cited chapter in the series of collaborations that linked Parton and Rogers across the 1980s, notable for its chart-topping country performance and for reaffirming the duo’s established working relationship.

Sources: Billboard (chart history), Wikipedia (song and album pages), DollyParton.com (album notes), Discogs (release details), American Songwriter (retrospective context).

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Lyric

They say that it’s a matter of trusting
Before love has a chance to begin
And it’s never simple, faithless hearts can cripple
And only a strong love survives
I know they say that it’s such a fine line
Between giving up and giving in
Ah, but once your heart’s been in it, you just can’t forget it
It’s like nothing that you’ve felt in your life
We got real love, not infatuation
Real love, our hearts’ celebration
I love you (you know I love you too)
Real love, not an imitation
Real love, you’re my destination
Baby, you and me, we got everything we need
You are such a part of my life
That I can’t remember me without you
And we’ve had our nights, we’ve had our share of fights
But we never thought of givin’ it up
Oh, you and I, we must be dreamers
‘Cause we’re makin’ all our dreams come true
I could spend my life just holding you so tight
And never ever get enough
We got real love, not infatuation
Real love, our hearts’ celebration
I love you (you know I love you too)
We got real love, not an imitation
Real love, you’re my destination
Baby, you and me, we got everything we need
We got real love
We got real love, not infatuation
Real love, our hearts’ celebration
I love you (you know I love you too)
Real love, not an imitation
Real love, you’re my destination
Baby, you and me, we got everything we need
We got real love, not infatuation
Real love, our hearts’ celebration
I love you (you know I love you too)
We got real love, not an imitation
Real love, you’re my destination…