About The Song

“You Can’t Make Old Friends” is the title track and lead duet from Kenny Rogers’s twenty-seventh studio album, released in October 2013. The song is presented as a duet with Dolly Parton and serves as the emotional centerpiece of the record, which was Rogers’s first album of mostly original material since 2006. The album was issued on Warner Bros. Nashville and marked a late-career statement that reunited Rogers with a longtime collaborator and friend.

At the time of the album’s release, Kenny Rogers was a veteran recording artist with a multi-decade career spanning pop, country and crossover hits. The pairing with Dolly Parton on the title track drew attention because of the long history between the two performers, which included earlier commercial and artistic success together. Their collaboration for this song was described in promotional material as both personal and musical, reflecting decades of professional friendship.

The song was written by Ryan Hanna King, Don Schlitz and Caitlyn Smith and produced for the album by Dann Huff. It was initially issued as a digital single in September 2013, with an official country radio add in November 2013. A music video and promotional appearances accompanied the single release, notably a video premiere connected to television promotional outlets during the autumn campaign for the album. The straightforward production and vocal arrangement place the duet’s conversational lyrics and vocal interplay at the center.

Lyrically, “You Can’t Make Old Friends” frames a meditation on long-term friendship and the shared history that makes certain relationships irreplaceable. The verses and chorus avoid elaborate metaphor in favor of direct address and anecdotal detail, allowing both singers to trade lines and reflect on time, memory and mutual knowledge. Musically the track is arranged in a contemporary country ballad idiom with a restrained, supportive instrumental palette intended to foreground the voices and the story they tell together.

As a single the duet registered on Billboard’s country listings, debuting on country airplay charts in late 2013 and peaking in the mid-range of the Country Airplay chart. The recording also received industry acknowledgment: Rogers and Parton were nominated for a Grammy Award in the category for Best Country Duo/Group Performance for their performance of the song. The single’s modest chart showing did not undercut its profile as a meaningful late-career collaboration for both artists.

Within the context of Kenny Rogers’s catalog, “You Can’t Make Old Friends” functions as a reflective, relationship-focused song that leverages the performers’ real-world rapport. The song was later included on Dolly Parton’s 2014 album release as well, and it has been cited in retrospective coverage as one of the notable reunions of Rogers’s later recording years. For listeners and commentators, the duet stands out for its plainspoken lyricism and the symbolic weight of the Rogers–Parton partnership late in both artists’ careers.

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Lyric

What will I do when you’re gone?
Who’s gonna tell me the truth?
Who’s gonna finish the stories I start
The way you always do?
When somebody knocks at the door
Someone new walks in
I will smile and shake their hands
But you can’t make old friends
You can’t make old friends
Can’t make old friends
It was me and you, since way back when
But you can’t make old friends
How will I sing when you are gone?
‘Cause it won’t sound the same
Who’ll join in on those harmony parts
When I call your name?
You can’t make old friends
Can’t make old friends
It was you and me, since way back when
You can’t make old friends
When Saint Peter opens the gate
And you come walking in
I’ll be there just waiting for you
‘Cause you can’t make old friends
‘Cause you can’t make old friends, no, no
And when I’m out on the stage all alone
And I hear the music begin
We all know the show must go on
But you can’t make old friends, no, no
You can’t make old friends
Can’t make old friends
And you and me, will be young again
You can’t make old friends
You and me, will be together again
‘Cause we both know, we’ll still be old friends
You can’t make old friends
Not the way we have always been